Any person young or old, male or female can become depressed. It is increasing in all age groups, but particularly in the younger teenage group. Females tend to experience depression twice as frequently as males, and depression is estimated 25 - 40% more common amongst children, that have grown up with a parent that is depressed.
There have been many misconceived ideas about depressed people, that they are weak, or they just feel sorry for themselves. They are told to 'snap out of it' or 'there are other people worse off than you'. This is certainly not an answer and often makes the person feel guilty or even worse about their condition.
Depression has many causes, and as a result has many viable avenues of treatments and cures. Mildly or severely depressed client's find themselves in situations that are enormously painful and who need help to find a way out. It can affect you physically, causing problems such as eating, sleep disturbance, your sex life, a decrease of pleasure or interest, fatigue and anxiety. Cognitively, depression can affect your ability to think clearly, making it difficult to concentrate, including poor memory, which can include errors in judgement and decision making.
Day to day living has become more stressful for some people, changes in society, a higher divorce or separation rate, and the general break-up of families, job insecurity, being too fat or too thin. Those who do not perceive themselves as successful, even with a nice car, house, or family. Pressures on children to do better at school, with the now increasing vast array of subjects, can lead to despair, frustration, which may cause anxiety, helplessness or hopelessness. Of course not everyone who experiences these problems or stresses becomes depressed. However, there are numerous amounts of people, who go untreated because either they don't know they are depressed, or a consultation with a doctor fails to diagnose depression. But somehow, they know they just don't feel right. Treating depression shouldn't be difficult!
There can be many underlying medical, physiological or psychological disorders that create depression where a full investigation is required and it is always advisable to seek medical assistance to rule out any medical or physiological causes. So I advise you go and see a good, sympathetic Doctor to rule these out. Once these concerns have been ruled out and it is considered a mind related problem, then this is where I can help you get the best for yourself and plan a route to a better life and start working towards treating the depression.
There has been research to show that chemical imbalances such as serotonin, noradrenalin and dopamine usually return to normal levels, when there is an interaction with psychotherapy for depression. This can sometimes suggest that the imbalance is the body's physical response to psychological depression, rather than the other way around. There is a more important and established understanding that in a social setting, the product of family environment, plays more relevance in producing depression. Learnt responses from a depressed mother, father or other family member can provide that child with negativity at a later time. It is now a faster, more complex life, with higher demands placed on the individual, most jobs are not as secure as they were, there is more information technology, hours spent watching TV or on the Internet can produce poor socialisation, for instance.
Drugs can often suppress underlying problems, only to find when the patient stops taking the anti-depressant drug, they become depressed and issues can resurface. Anti-depressant medication cannot teach coping skills, problem solving skills, resolve interpersonal issues, or protect against reoccurrence of depressive episodes. That is not to say however, you should stop taking medication without your doctors consent.
Some therapists prefer their clients to be on medication; I recognize that it can create an instant lift by helping you feel less anxious, so that therapy can have a more immediate effect. Also, once therapy is complete, cessation of medication shouldn't cause any problems.
It would be unfair to say that all people do not get relief from medication, and in some instances it is definitely required. Whether it is clinical depression, reactive depression or post natal depression, mild, severe; an individual has the ability to break up their depression if they want to. It is a very important step to recognise depression and then to obtain suitable help. Everyone is an individual, therefore mind related/psychological/reactive depression therapy is individualised to pertain to that person.
A person who is depressed, does the same old things, day in and day out, more than likely ruminating over the same old negative thoughts and problems. When you do something differently, you may get a different and much better result. It is knowing what to do differently that counts, providing a better future.
Reactive Depression is manageable and recovery is highly likely if approached seriously and with a skilled therapist. It can be such an isolating condition, and many of us are afraid of seeking help because we fear the treatment almost as much as the feeling depression gives. You really don't have to suffer in silence or fear any longer.
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