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Feeling Stressed
and Anxious? Start Feeling Better Right Now
With Clinical Hypnotherapist Tanya Dransfield’s
Top Tips.
Is stress or anxiety
holding you back?
Anxiety and stress is on
the increase and it can have a negative affect
on your whole life if you don’t deal with
it. Tanya Dransfield (www.tanyadransfield.com)
helps by blending Clinical Hypnosis, Psychotherapy
and NLP.
There are lots of symptoms
of stress and anxiety but you can get a good
indication by taking a moment, right now,
to pay attention to how you’re feeling. Tanya
says, “Do you regularly hold your body tensely?
Scowl? Have you been overeating? Smoking or
drinking too much? Are tears a too regular
threat? Overdoing anything is a sign of stress.”
If you’re a driver, you
probably think nothing of taking your car
for an MOT. But what about yourself? Aren’t
you far more valuable than any vehicle? Just
as your car works most efficiently when you
pay attention to what it needs, giving yourself
that same kind of care will help you get much
more out of life.
Tanya says “There are lots
of things you can do yourself to start feeling
better immediately.”
These top tips will
help you get started:
BREATHE DEEPLY
– Breathing is something we usually take for
granted. But when you’re feeling tense, stressed
or anxious, your breathing often becomes more
shallow and this then increases the anxiety.
Breathing deeply will help to lower your anxiety.
Breathe in for a count of 4, making sure your
belly goes out and then out for a count of
5. This extra length on the exhale will help
you release extra toxins.
EXERCISE
– It’s easy to feel anxious and stressed if
you’re cooped up in your office or home. Just
getting out for a short walk can help. Tanya
often gets clients who suffer from panic attacks
to jog on the spot. This will help you release
stress hormones, cortisol and adrenaline,
more effectively. If you’re at work and feel
the panic or anxiety rising, head for the
toilet, lock yourself in and jog on the spot.
If you can’t do this without attracting attention,
punch the air repeatedly and you’ll get the
same sense of release.
SING! -
Even if you think you’re so tone deaf you
end up laughing, you’ll have turned the stress
and anxiety around and feel much better. Singing
is also a great way to regulate your breath
and let it all out. Pick something really
melodramatic or something more upbeat. Or
just sing whatever comes to mind. If you’re
shy (or have nearby neighbours), use the noise
of the shower to drown it out (bathroom acoustics
often help improve the sound quality, too!).
Whistling can also help.
LAUGHTER REALLY
IS THE BEST MEDICINE – If other people
are bringing you down and you hang around
and let them, you’ll not only feel worse yourself
but you’ll be less able to help them feel
better. Surround yourself with happy people
as much as possible. Happiness is contagious.
When you’re alone, watch comedies or read
books that make you feel good.
IMAGINE A BIG STRESS
DIAL – This works well for many of
my clients and it’s something you can easily
do yourself. Picture a stress dial (a bit
like a dimmer light switch) which is marked
with numbers from 1-10. Which hand is it in?
Imagine 10 as the highest level of stress
and literally take it down a notch (or ten!).
This simple reminder that you’re in control
of yourself will often be enough…
These are all techniques
you can use on your own. If you want extra
help getting to the root of your anxiety and
stress, Tanya can help you get there more
quickly. She has been in the industry for
several years.
As well as developing her
own practice, Tanya showed so much promise
while training as a clinical hypnotherapist
with psychotherapy at an Essex Institute that
she joined the staff soon after qualifying.
She became Director of Studies and taught
many hypnotherapists over the years, including
lecturing abroad. Tanya has also trained in
NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) with NLP’s
co-founder Richard Bandler and Paul McKenna.
While Tanya can use Clinical
Hypnosis, psychotherapy and NLP to help people
with all sorts of issues, she specialises
in stress and anxiety. Tanya says, “Talking
about personal things can feel quite daunting
so you want to be sure that the therapist
you choose is someone you can trust and relax
with. I can help keep you on track by reminding
you that you have a choice about feeling good
or staying with the feelings that you don’t
like. If you’re paying me to help you, I’m
going to make sure you do the work necessary.
Many of my clients have told me that they
were nervous before coming to see me but I
quickly put them at ease with my down to earth
approach. I also help people quit smoking,
learn to relax, control their weight, get
rid of bad habits, fears and phobias.”
To book your FREE consultation
and find out how you can start living life
to the full today, call Tanya Dransfield,
DHP MAPHP(Acc.) LNCP on 01702 716168 or 07971
823033. She is based at The Opal Clinic, 50
The Ridgeway, Chalkwell, Essex SS0 8NU.
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